Your reaction could be a clue that casual sex is stirring up more emotions than you’d care to deal with.

“Explain that you need a good night of sleep and wanted to let him know ahead of time.”Ī different (yet just as potentially awkward) take on the situation is if he’s the one who explains why he has to split immediately post-O. You don’t want to lie about needing to let the dog out only to wind up dating and having to come clean about that just being a furry figment of your imagination.

“Explain that you need a good night of sleep and wanted to let him know ahead of time.”Īs for why you need that quality shut-eye, you can explain that you have a lot to do the next day, you’re meeting a friend for breakfast, you have a doctor’s appointment early the next morning…you get the idea, just use good judgment. “Bring it up before the sex happens,” says Jane Greer, Ph.D., New York-based marriage and sex therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship. Whether the action is going down at your place or not, there are polite ways to either make your escape or get him to leave without offense. Maybe you’re more than fine with sharing an orgasm, but sharing a bed? Nah.

Here, experts explain how to navigate any weirdness that comes up when you’re giving casual sex a go. Given that 41 percent of people in a recent Adam and Eve survey said they have casual sex, there are a lot of chances for things to veer from that fantasy and slide straight into cringe-worthy territory. Your ideal casual-sex scenario probably goes a little something like this: you and a seriously hot stranger or friend with benefits rip each other’s clothes off, bang out a couple orgasms each, then part with good feelings all around.

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